Self reflection – DimmaJo Blog

Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.

I don’t hope people say I was perfect.
I don’t hope they say I had it all figured out.
And I don’t hope they say I never failed.

There’s just one thing I hope people say about me:

“She made me feel seen.”

In a world that moves too fast, listens too little, and judges too quickly, being seen has become rare. Everyone is talking. Everyone is posting. Everyone is trying to be heard. But very few people pause long enough to truly notice the person in front of them.

If there’s one thing I hope my presence leaves behind, it’s this quiet truth: I paid attention.

I listened when it mattered.
I stayed when it was inconvenient.
I cared without needing applause.

I hope people say I didn’t just hear words—I heard meaning. That I noticed the silence behind their smiles. That I asked questions without rushing their answers. That I made room for them to be honest, even when honesty was messy.

Because being seen changes people.

It gives courage to the insecure.
Rest to the tired.
Hope to the unheard.

I hope people say I didn’t make them feel small in a room full of voices. That I didn’t compete with their pain or dismiss their joy. That around me, they didn’t have to perform or pretend or prove anything.

Just be.

I hope they say I was kind—but not the loud, performative kind. The quiet kind. The kind that checks in later. The kind that remembers. The kind that stays human in moments where it’s easier to be cold.

If someday my name comes up in a conversation I’m not in, I don’t need it to be followed by titles, achievements, or compliments.

I just hope someone says,

“She saw me. And it mattered.”

Because long after words fade and accomplishments blur, how you made people feel is what survives you.

And if that’s the one thing remembered about me, it will be more than enough.

What’s the one thing you hope people say about you—and why?

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What will your life be like in three years?

Have you ever paused for a moment—really paused—and asked yourself, “What will my life look like three years from now?”

It’s a powerful question, one that stirs both excitement and fear. Because deep down, you know that the life you’ll be living then depends entirely on the choices you make now.

Let’s take a mental journey—three years into your future.

Imagine This…

You wake up one morning to sunlight spilling through the curtains. Your alarm doesn’t jar you awake anymore—you rise peacefully, because your life finally feels like it fits you. You stretch, smile, and think, “I’m doing it. I’m living the life I once dreamed about.”

Maybe you’re working in a career that once seemed impossible. Or you’ve built a small business that gives you freedom, joy, and purpose. Maybe you’ve healed from old wounds and learned to protect your peace fiercely.

You’re not the same person you were three years ago.
You’ve grown. You’ve failed. You’ve learned.
But above all—you’ve become intentional.

The Truth About Time

Here’s the thing: three years will pass whether you plan for it or not.

You might still be stuck in the same routine, waiting for a miracle, or you might be walking in the life you once wrote in your journal.

Every decision you make today is a small seed for that future—what you eat, what you read, how you speak to yourself, who you keep around, how often you choose discipline over doubt.

The future doesn’t arrive suddenly; it unfolds quietly in your habits, thoughts, and consistency.

So, Who Are You Becoming?

Are you the person who complains about how hard life is—or the one who gets up, even when it’s hard?
Are you the one who dreams but never acts—or the one who builds, one small brick at a time?

Because the truth is, your “three years from now” version of you is already watching—hoping you won’t give up, praying you’ll stay consistent, begging you to trust the process.

You owe it to that future self to start today

A Glimpse of Possibility

In three years, you could:

Be living in a city you once Googled for inspiration.

Have a bank account that finally reflects your worth.

Wake up next to peace instead of anxiety.

Speak with confidence instead of doubt.

Become the kind of person others look at and say, “You’ve changed—in the best way.”

But it all starts with one choice: believing that you can.

Final Thought: The Power of Now

You don’t need to have everything figured out. You just need to start.
Read that book.
Take that course.
Pray a little deeper.
Speak kinder words to yourself.
Take one step forward—even when no one notices.

Because three years from now, you’ll either be grateful you started today—or wishing you had.

So, what will your life be like in three years?
Only you can decide.

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